Queen Victoria was a writer. She started keeping a journal at age 13 and continued throughout her entire life. She also corresponded through letters with many people, most frequently her Uncle Leopold, King of the Belgiums. I picked up a book from the library called Queen Victoria in Her Letters and Journals: A Selection by Christopher Hibbert. In it I found journal entries and letters from when Queen Victoria first met Albert. Here are some excerpts:
Journal: 18 May 1836 “Albert, who is just as tall as Ernest [Albert’s brother] but stouter, is extremely handsome; his hair is about the same colour as mine; his eyes are large and blue, and he has a beautiful nose and a very sweet mouth with fine teeth; but the charm of his countenance is his expression, which is most delightful; c’est a la fois full of goodness and sweetness, and very clever and intelligent…”
Letter to King Leopold: 7 June 1836 “I must thank you, my beloved Uncle, for the prospect of great happiness you have contributed to give me, in the person of dear Albert. Allow me, then, my dearest Uncle, to tell you how delighted I am with him, and how much I like him in every way. He possesses every quality that could be desired to render me perfectly happy. He is so sensible, so kind, and so good, and so amiable too. He has, besides, the most pleasing and delightful exterior and appearance you can possibly see.”
Victoria’s Uncle Leopold and Albert’s father wished Victoria and Albert to marry but Victoria felt no obligation to grant this wish or even marry at all unless she herself desired it. She states this in this next letter to King Leopold:
15 July 1839 “…Though all the reports of Albert are most favourable, and though I have little doubt I shall like him, still one can never answer beforehand for feelings, and I may not have the feeling for him which is requisite to ensure happiness. I may like him as a friend, and as a cousin, and as a brother, but not more; and should this be the case (which is not likely), I am very anxious that it should be understood that I am not guilty of any breach of promise, for I never gave any. I am sure you will understand my anxiety, for I should otherwise, were this not completely understood, be in a very painful position. As it is, I am rather nervous about the visit [of her cousins Ernest and Albert], for the subject I allude to is not an agreeable one to me.”
Victoria was a very strong-willed and independent person. She was used to getting her own way and doing what she wanted. She thought that marrying would take this ability away from her and restrict what she did which is why she thought of marriage as a very disagreeable thing. But meeting Albert changed her mind. She proposed to him on October 15th, 1839 (the monarch must propose in these situations) and they were married within the year. Here is a link describing the wedding: http://womenshistory.about.com/library/etext/bl_eminent_victoria_l.htm